Introduction: In today’s fast-paced lifestyle, managing a large family can be a daunting task, and it can take a toll on one’s mental and physical health. In this blog post, we will discuss a story of a primary school teacher, Sujay, and his struggle with Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS). We will explore how unresolved resentment towards his father led to his IBS and how he overcame it.
Body: Paru, a primary school teacher, took on the responsibility of managing a large joint family after his father’s death. His wife, Anna, supported him in the process, and they delayed starting their own family. When their first child, Sujay, was born after 7 years of marriage, he became the centre of attention in the family. However, when Sujay’s younger brother, Sujan, was born,
Sujay’s attention and love were diverted towards him, causing Sujay to develop resentment towards his father.
As time passed, Sujay’s school performance started slowing down, was comfortable with other under-performing students
He moved to the city for his studies, where his resentment towards his father continued to grow unconsciously.
He started experiencing a burning sensation in his eusophagus, and his health started deteriorating further.
Sujay was eventually diagnosed with Irritable Bowel Syndrome, and he was advised to manage it by following a strict food regimen. He could no longer eat his favorite snacks, such as Panipuri and Masala Puri, and attending social events became a challenge. For 20 long years, he managed IBS without knowing its true cause, until he finally discovered his deep-rooted resentment towards his father.
Sujay overcame his IBS by acknowledging his resentment and taking steps to resolve it. He started attending therapy sessions and communicating with his father, leading to a better understanding and a stronger relationship between them. As a result, Sujay’s health improved, and he was able to enjoy his favorite foods again.
Conclusion: Irritable Bowel Syndrome is a chronic condition that can be managed by taking care of one’s diet, lifestyle, and stress. However, it is essential to explore the underlying causes of the condition, which may be rooted in unresolved emotional issues. In Sujay’s case, his resentment towards his father led to his IBS, but with therapy and communication, he was able to overcome it. Managing IBS requires a holistic approach that includes both physical and emotional wellbeing.
